Monday, August 24, 2009

Y'all gon make me lose my mind, up in here, up in here...Yall gon make me go all out, up in here, up in here...

Just another Earl Reunion 2009 post...probably. but it must be documented.

Plans had begun for this reunion a couple years ago, with many ideas thrown into the mix and consequently thrown out. We had many ideas for "themes"...too many...we had to focus.
So we settled on a Hawaiian theme, and planned accordingly. I love working with themes, it makes it all so much more exciting. an execution of a good party is all in the details, and that's what I think I bring to the group...I worry about the little details making sure it's perfect.

The reunion was a lot of work, a lot of stress, a lot of time invested....but the pay-off was worth it.
It was so much fun, and the look of joy on people's faces throughout the weekend made it all worth it.

There were times that I worried the reunion wouldn't go like I had envisioned in my head, and although some of decorations weren't perfect (stupid changing weather), I think everything went smoothly and people had fun.

the week prior to the reunion was spent organizing decorations, putting final touches on the games, making craft examples, and grocery shopping for 85 people. Each day we had a list of tasks that were to be accomplished (kimmie loves lists), and I think we were pretty organized. Luckily we are a family full of both leaders and followers.

Friday morning, while the men were golfing

us ladies got up bright and early and started decorating, even the kids helped. Carson was more than excited to place the sea animals into the nets and Kaiya was very proud of her flower positioning on the tables....then it started to sprinkle....there were some moments of stress that this "luau" we had put together wasn't going to go as planned. we quickly packed up everything and put it in the house. would the party move to the stake center? grandma's garage? I had to take a little break and just hope that it would all work out...one of my biggest problems is dealing with things not turning out the way they look in my head. It's like i told grandma. I don't put a whole lot of effort into many things in life...i'm usually okay with "fine"...so when I do put forth effort, it must be perfect, or I am extremely disappointed...this is why I have a problem delegating, I don't like giving others that power over the outcome. phew...good to get that out there...very therapeutic.
anyway.

friday went amazing! the weather cooperated, and the family was in for a party.


we ate (alot)

played in the pool

( I think many of the men may have permanent scars on their feet from basketball)
talked


and listened to music (I had a summer time/luau mix playing in the background).

Friday night we wanted to have a little program. First we would present the reunion t-shirt (designed by jared), and then have a little dedication to my mom. We didn't want it to be cheesy, so I made it a production instead. I came up with the idea for a motown medley lip-sync, and assigned each family a motown hit and let them take it from there.
I had no idea what would come of it.....but i should have known, the families would come with their A game.

Stop in the Name of Love

Respect

Midnight train to georgia

Ain't to proud to beg

Heard it through the grapevine

Dancing in the streets

It was fantastic, entertaining, and a wonderful way to celebrate the family. Afterwards, David requested I put on some jams (an earth, wind, and fire song specifically) and a dance party ensued.
Do you remember...






and that's what I love about my family, and what I think may set us apart from everyone else. as long as I can remember my family has always been down for
1) a production number and
2) an impromtu dance party.
gotta love it.

Saturday we thought it was time the women got some alone time (the men usually get golf time)

so Lindsay and Kimmie put together some awesome crafts. It was perfect cause they were easy to do, very cute, and could be done while carrying on multiple conversations with family.
I love when I can multi-task.



That afternoon was spent at the state park (classic location).
playing volleyball

having races (backstory: david gives out money for race winners...aaron was taunting those behind him with a dollar....classic wise!)



doing an egg toss

taking family pictures



eating pizza, and visiting with family.

Such a relaxing day.


Saturday night was the big activity
the event Jared and I have been painstakingly planning for awhile
The thing I was most nervous about

I was so excited about it, and just hoped everyone would love it.
Jared and I had gone over the details multiple times.

Teams: each team should have at least one person from moses lake, one athletic person, one person who would be willing to do a food challenge, and try to split up families. We knew it couldn't be family against family...that's just asking for trouble.

Station managers: I had lined up friends to help with the challenges, and had made sure they knew one very important thing
DON'T TRUST ANYONE.
I told them the Earl's (and in-laws) could be very competitive, very persuasive, and very sneaky...so just assume they are lying and don't let them get away with anything.



Clue and destination cards: Jared had spent numerous hours putting together the cards needed, and they looked absolutely amazing. We had spent a day driving around town: scouting locations, taking pictures, figuring out ideas for challenges, and it was Jared's job to make it all look professional




Tasks: I had made numerous trips to wal-mart (agh), the dollar store, and scoured online for all the items we would need for each station. I wanted it to be perfect.

Roadblock: Cafe Loco: one team member must finish a plate of less than appetizing foods
gross food items, bark buckets, bottles of water, hand sanitizer, gum...check

(backstory: I had also bought a bottle of very hot sauce, but in my attempt to sneak it inside the house, along with the other items, the bottle collided with the pigs feet bottle and completely shattered in the plastic bag...too bad i didn't notice this until i had gotten it inside my room and set it on the carpet. I then spent the next hour or so, scrubbing the carpet trying to get out the instant hot sauce stains that ran from my front door to the bathroom in my room. I scrubbed so hard I had rug burns on my knuckles...ouch)

Roadblock 2: two team members must scour the gardens in search of the travelocity roaming gnome.
route markers, gnomes, geisha costume....check



All Play task: Men must put on coconut bras and hula skirts, while the woman must paint their faces identical to this

and search downtown for the turtle statue
bras, skirts, eyeliner...check

Deteor: Swatch or Score: Team members can choose between scoring 5 goals from designated places on the field or search Home Depot for a paint color
marking paint, soccer balls and cones (jared), ref shirt with whistle, painted swatches identical to home depot swatch...check

we were ready....

We met at David and Peggy's, left the kids with capable sitters, divided into teams, watched as some family members manuevered their cars into more prime locations
gave last minute rules (you break the law it's your fault, listen to the station managers, and don't cheat)

and then said ready, set, go! and they were off.

It was intense from that moment, as a couple cars almost collided just getting out of the parking lot. awesome!

We asked each team to take pictures if they could...here are some of the action shots



Jared and I quickly left too, running to check on the stations, gathering tiki torches for the finish line, and making sure everything was running smoothly.

Then we headed back to david's and waited for text messages from station managers saying a team was on their way home.

When I received two messages with a couple minutes we knew it was going to be a foot race..so Jared drove my car up the hill and blocked the driveway so they would have to get out and run downhill to the finish line.....or so we thought.

Pat's team (the winning team*), drove around the car and parked by the house. We did make them run back up the hill and run back down to the finish line before we would check them in. as they were about half way back down the hill we saw the other team running down....just as we pictured. amazing.
Pat's team was the first to completely hit the finish line, and they were declared the winners (*) :)



I quickly texted the other teams to tell them the game was over.

One team got the text immediately following the finishing of this gross plate of food


and another team got it as they finished running a 1/2 mile into town to find this statue

AWESOME.

Things went exactly like we wanted. some people tried forming alliances, some tried to follow other cars to destinations (they didn't know we staggered their destinations, and they weren't all going to the same place), some got lost, some rules were taken as "subjective", and of course in the end there was controversy!

we joined back together at the house


ate hot fudge sundaes with coconut, bananas, and macademia nuts (deliciousl) and listened to everyone's account of the game.

I was in heaven. everyone seemed to love it as much as I wanted them too.

It was a fabulous reunion, and I loved the time spent with family....but it's now taken me a week to recover...man I am tired (probably like you are, after reading this long post)

Thursday, August 20, 2009

You'd be wearing that smile, Haven't Seen For Awhile

When we were younger I remember the road trips to Minnesota in the height of summer to visit family. I remember the mosquito's, the heat, the fun. I remember my cousin Julie.

She is the oldest of my "Bates" cousins, and twenty years older than me and yet the one I have always felt closest to. Maybe it's because she lived with our family, in Seattle, on a couple of different occasions in my youth and I remember thinking she was so cool, so hip, so awesome. She was the one who started my pig collection. She held a permanent place in my heart.

and yet I haven't seen her since 1992.

My mom kept in contact with her, so through the years we would get updates on what "minnesota julie" was up to, but it just never worked out for any of us to travel and visit.

Then a couple years ago, we reconnected through my blog and emails, and it was great for her to be able to see what we were up to and for me to hear about her life.

When my mom died, Julie was one of the first people I talked to. She and my mom were close, and I knew how much my mom loved her.

Since my mom's passing Julie has kept in touch with us, making sure we were okay. Giving positive reinforcement, encouragement, and love...just like my mom would have.
I love my cousin Julie.

When I knew that all my siblings would be in one spot I knew it would be a perfect opportunity to get Julie out here for a long overdue visit and to see us in person,

as adults

...as parents


We had such a glorious time! I have to admit, I was a little afraid that I had built her up in my head. After all, I hadn't really hung out with her since I was 16 years old and maybe she seemed so cool to me back then cause she was older.

but she was everything I remembered!

She was easy going, fun, funny, hip, and knowledgeable about pop culture.

We spent the few days together
hanging out


swimming, eating, laughing,

and even played an amazing round of "celebrity" (have Jared do his "bruce jenner" sometime for ya) and just reconnected.


It was such a fun visit, and I can't wait to see her again.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Cause you know where I'll be found..when I come around

I have so much to post for the events of the last couple of weeks, but I will have to do it in sections.

Let's start with Mitch.

As a mentioned before my brother Mitch was able to come visit for a couple weeks after his little excursion through Asia, and it was soooooo nice having him around. The Q took to him so quickly, and now that he's gone, keeps looking in his room for him. She loved him.

Mitch is one of the coolest people I know

and I can honestly say I enjoy spending my time with him. We ate (he cooked a couple of delicious meals, yippee), watched tv (I got him hooked on "intervention", late night with jimmy fallon, and "toddlers and tiaras"), and played with Q.



He is so good with the kids, and such a great uncle.

We really enjoyed having him around, and felt blessed to be able to spend a lot of one on one time with him. I have always felt very protective of my Mitch and now that my mom is gone, I feel it my responsibility to take care of him. I worry about him all the time, and hope one day he isn't so far away. But for now I cherish the time he is home and look forward to seeing him again soon.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

I'm looking for a new love baby, a new love...

Qiana Bates: My new BFF

Hey peeps!

my awesome nanny Brittany is leaving for school in the fall, and I am forced to find someone else to watch me during the day. I really adore my brittany and it's going to be sad to see her go. So like Paris Hilton, I am also searching for my new BFF.
I don't know if anyone will compare to her, but I'm hoping there is someone out there....
Unfortunately my mom hasn't won the lottery yet

and thus has to work a little during the day so I need to find someone who will take good care of me, like she would.
I don't want to brag, but I'm a pretty easy kid to take care of.
I like playing with toys



hanging out outside (weather permitting)

walking around


eating


going on adventures

and of course smiling and laughing

I am willing to travel to your home or have someone come to my house. An official daycare, or just somebody who wants to watch another child.
I'm easy.
So if you think you could be my new BFF give my mom a holla at
bates_angie@hotmail.com
or her cell.
She's kind of stressed about this, so the sooner the better.
I like my mom happy!

Monday, August 3, 2009

cause they knowing that this is the place to be to let it all out...But when the weekend come, the weekend come

Our weekend was simply fantastic!
First off.....Mitch is here!
My little traveler has returned home, and it has been so fun having him around. We have spent most days in the pool or hanging out around the house.

At night he usually goes out with his friends, but who can blame him I'm usually in bed by 9:30 anyway.
Qiana took to him right away, and gives him big smiles and was completely fascinated with his facial hair. Mitch is so quick to play with her, or try and make he laugh. It's so cute.


While in the pool Q became completely enamored with the basketball, and was completely content to chill in her watermelon floatie playing (licking mostly) with that ball. It was pretty cute.


In this past week Q has really FOUND her tongue and is sticking it out all the time. Sometimes it's the whole tongue

and sometimes it's just the tip of it, which is so freakin' cute.

Saturday night Emily, Qiana, Clinton, and I headed up to the Grand Coulee Dam for the laser light show.
Clinton seriously hooked us up with drinks and treats, while Em and I brought the KFC.

We got their early enough to sit around, eat, play some cards, and kind of slightly die from the heat...seriously is was soooo hot.

Qiana was getting pretty tired, but couldn't fall asleep i think because of the heat. I even put her in her stroller and walked up and down the parking lot a few times, but the girl just couldn't give in to the tired.
It started to get dark so we found our place on the lawn and got ready for the "magic".

While we waited...
Qiana enjoyed playing with Clinton


While Em and I tried to get a good "hey look, we are at the dam" shot. The wind blew my hair in my face last minute....nice :(


This isn't the best video, but I had to try and capture my favorite part of this horribly cheesy, yet suprisingly entertaining and informative light show that takes place across the Grand Coulee dam. The music and effects haven't changed since the 80's but this little ditty never goes out of style.
p.s.....the green things is an eagle that flies around the dam.

Sunday we headed over the jeff and becky's (it was her birthday) to visit with them, tom/gail, grandma, and kelsey and have some of my grandma's homemade peach, banana cream, and lemon pie. DELICIOUS!
Oh then we headed home and ate some delicious green curry, with chicken and rice that my brother had made....oh man it was good.
Jealous?